How to Get Your Man to Commit

Getting a man to commit can be difficult, especially these days. So what can a woman do to get her man to commit? Read on to find out.

Instructions

1. First, do not at any time ask your man, "Where are we in this relationship?" or "Where are we going?". Men don't like these types of questions and they can even be downright scary for a man.

2. The less committed a man seems to be, the more you need to do a repetitive cycle of pushing in and pulling back.

3. To "push in", you need to do things for your man, like making him delicious food, helping him do some errands, and other things that will make him appreciate you. Soon, your man will depend on you in many ways. That's the idea.

4. Now, "pull back". If he hasn't made a commitment to you, pull back a little. Spend a bit of time away from him and blow him off. Don't be rude and don't avoid him, but just pull back a little.

5. Then swing back in to pushing in and so on. While this sounds like a strange technique it will be different from many needy women who are always nagging for a stronger commitment.

6. You will foster a dependence in your man but at the same time be pulling back from time to time, making him miss you and miss your presence. He will also still have his space, since you will continually pull back.

7. Finally, forget forcing him into some verbal agreement, calling him all the time, or using sex as a weapon. These are all major turn-offs. Just give and then retreat. Hit and run. Sooner or later, your man will want you to stay around and that's when you'll have the commitment.