Things You'll Need:
- Money to pay for the date
- Confidence
- Breath-mints or gum
- Self control
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Step 1
Arrive on time, and never ever honk your horn to signal your arrival. Walk up to her door, absolutely confident and relaxed and ring the doorbell. Make sure, you are well groomed and dressed appropriately. Make sure your car is clean as well. Most women will take notice of a filthy car. Thus, remove all the late night fast food trash/leftovers and needless to say any traces of previous dates or of women whose lives were forever changed in the back seat of your car.
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Step 2
Take her to an interesting place. Preferably one she hasn’t been to before. If you’re going out to eat pick a new restaurant. Treat the waitress with outmost respect and tip well. If you’re seeing a movie afterwards, why not mix it up and take her to a drive in. Don’t forget the candy or even java. Stock up on gum and breath mints. Have some in your car and keep some in your pocket. You want her to want to taste your lips at some point, not run for the hills heels and all.
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Step 3
Keep the conversation light and interesting. Show off your sense of humor and if the conversation ventures into serious topics don’t be afraid to disagree with her. A little debate is a great aphrodisiac. If you’re talking about something she is particularly passionate about let her do most of the talking, but make an effort to participate with intelligent comments and observations . Seem very interested in what she has to say. Talk about your passions and interests as well. Avoid talking about the following; sex (unless she is a sex therapist), ex girlfriends and wives, ailments, child support payments etc.
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Step 4
Finance the entire first date. I really mean that, even if she offers to pay don’t let her. Something about the female of any species favoring a mate who can provide for her and any potential offspring. There is a lot of truth to that, and if you try to split the tab thereby assuring her that you’re actually a feminist at heart, the possibility of a second date is greatly reduced. Allow her to pay, and you’ve just thrown even the remote possibility of getting to second base out the window.
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Step 5
Don’t act needy or horny. If you actually get a green light for the first kiss or she allows you to go even further don‘t try to get into her pants just yet, especially if she is the woman you‘d like to get to know better. Kiss her on the lips gently while controlling saliva (you don’t want to be known as the man who slobbered all over the entire lower half of her face.) Keep your lips relaxed and watch your teeth. Slow and steady is the best course to take, since this is probably the first time you’re kissing this particular woman and you want to take the time to learn how she likes to be kissed. Gently stroke her neck and shoulders with your fingertips, and any other part of her body that is exposed. Don’t head for the crotch even if she is visibly aroused. You want to keep her wanting more and thinking about the first great date you took her on. Regardless of the level of arousal stop and drive her home.
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Step 6
End the date by thanking her for her company and letting her know that you had a great time. If she seems interested (and she probably is if you’ve had any physical contact) make preliminary plans for a second date but tell her that you’ll call her with specifics. Wait 48 hours before you do and then discuss definitive plans.
Comments
beanofdoom said
on 8/18/2009 "Resources: Don't be a creep" LOL. Good advice. I hate first dates because I can't stand expectations/anticipation; the whole scene puts me in "screw this, what am I doing here anyway" mode. Then the date is ruined. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I can't help being a creep. 5*