How to Flirt With Women

There really is no way to teach someone how to flirt, but I can give you some tips on how to flirt and win them over. Flirting can be fun and easy!

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

1. 
    

   Look Approachable You want to look nice. Otherwise, you are not going to get anywhere!

2. 
    
   she doesn't want to be hit on

   Find someone who looks approachable, look around. Who seems interested and open to this tango.

3. 
    

   Make Eye Contact and Approach. Take a few glances at the person, and when they look, you look away quickly. Do this a few times, and then lock eyes for a split second. When you are ready, go over, and introduce yourself. "Hi, I'm (your name), and you are.

4. 
    

   Be natural. You don't have to be smooth. Guys always think flirting is an art form only mastered by players, but guys who think they have game and spit lines are cheesy, not my cup of tea anyway. Flirting should be honest and fun, away of getting to know a potential spouse. You shouldn't constantly pull out memorized line after line that you have used on over fifty different girls.

5. 
    

   Use More Body Language and Close the Conversation
   While talking, maybe place your hand on their arm, or another CLEAN suggestive move. Just don't get into their bubble. And remember: make eye contact not breast contact.

Tips & Warnings

• Make sure the conversation is interesting
• Smell good like a fresh shower, not strong aftershave or a dead rodent
• Guys be confident
• No, we don't want to hear about your ex girlfriend
• You live with your mom?
• PLEASE DO NOT USE CHEESY PICK UP LINES, THEY NEVER WORK.
• Also keep in mind that you should defer compliments about her appearance. Chances are if you're hitting on her, she gets hit on a lot and is probably getting annoyed by it. Just talk to her in a charming manner. She knows you fancy her looks. That's why you're chatting her ears off.

[donaldlyn]

on 11/10/2009 Keeping eye contact can be hard when you have the lower subjects as mentioned above staring at you do to small amounts of clothing or outstanding cleveage.

[proseduction]

on 7/27/2009 wow this is some good advice given here. it's great. but if u want to take things to the next level, you have to include something called Kino. The word comes from Kinasthetic which meants touch or study of the body. Apply this with any girl, and you're guaranteed to get lucky. To learn more you should visit
Pro Seduction Training. Great site

http://www.proseductiontraining.com

[novalove]

on 4/10/2009 Nice work. Good article.