How to Tell if She Is Attracted to You
You walk into the bar and see a woman you find attractive. You walk up and start to talk to her. You think she is attracted to you, but how do you really know. Dating is hard, but meeting trying to figure out if she is attracted to you can be even harder. Here are some tips to tell if she is attracted you:
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Things You'll Need
- An outgoing personality
- A sense of humor
- A place to meet woman
- A desire to meet women
Instructions
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Look into her eyes. Research from the University of Florida (Go Gators) suggests that a woman's eyes will open wider as she becomes attracted to you. As she open's here eyes wider, her pupils will get larger. Look into her eyes and see if her eyes have opened wider. Take note at her eye color too and make mention. This will help with rapport too.
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Look at her feet. This may be in contrast to the first tip, but take a look at her feet and note where her feet are pointed. Experts say that subconsciously, women tend to point their feet toward a man whom they find attractive. This can be especially helpful in a group setting. Again, making mention of her shoes will help to build rapport.
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Make note of her posture and how she stands. Body language is about 80% of communication, and a woman will tend to lean toward someone she finds attractive. Women also tend to get at least slightly closer to a man whom they feel safe around, again suggesting some attraction. Also, if she is looking around the room, leans away, or perhaps keeps checking her watch.... it may not be such a good sign.
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Pay attention to what she does with her hands; especially if she touches her face. Woman will tend touch touch their face when they are attracted to a man. It is a way that women bring attention to facial features, such as her eyes or smile. Again, this is another opportune time to make mention of a beautiful feature... such as, "you have an amazing smile."
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Just ask them already! The absolute best way to find out if she is attracted to her is to ask them out. Don't be too aggressive, but after talking to her a bit and noting some of the signs above, ask her for a date. If she is interested, she will accept and the conversation can continue. If she is not, she will likely be flattered by your offer, and you can move on to another attractive woman.
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Tips & Warnings
Be nice, polite, and intersting
Note body language
Continue the conversation while noting body language
Don't be afraid to ask her out
If there is no attraction, just be polite and move on politely
Try not to stare at her eyes, feet, or other body parts
If you pick up that she is not attracted to you, she likely is not...
Don't be creepy!
