Things You'll Need:
- Steady partner (you know what I mean.)
- cup of water
- Ability to open your mind and all its possibilities.
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Step 1
Relax and get in the mood!Again, I do not think that I am very good at these but at least I try and no complaints so far so things are going OK. I NEVER used to do these but once I found "my love" I decided to go for it. Really, here is the basic thing- the tip is the most sensitive and you don't have to go all the way down like the movies show. Yes, the men enjoy it but it is NOT necessary. So, get clean (both of you,) in the mood and move to the appropriate area (bedroom.)
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Step 2
Let your hair loose and take control!You are going to need both hands so be comfy. He will move to your comfort level if necessary once he gets the cue. Trust me! Just start playing with him using your tongue and keep it simple. Nothing fancy. Do what you want. Interestingly enough, show your face, hair and body move. Men are very visual creatures and that is enough to give them a heart attack.
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Step 3
Do NOT be too serious and just be yourself!Once you feel ready, put one hand at the base firm but not too hard of a grip- they are much studier than you think! Place your mouth at the top and as you move down to your comfort level, have the hand meet your mouth and follow down the rest. Keep moving your mouth (no teeth) up and down with the hand keeping the rhythm. If you need lubricant, use it! If your mouth feels dry, drink some water. Your hands can make up for your natural desire not to be a porn star. I understand. Again, the tip is the most sensitive so watch the teeth and take your time. Feel free to ask how it feels and if he would like you to do something different and so on. Communication is key. Do not be embarrassed.
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Step 4
You will find out why men conquered nations for women! Seduction!Do what you are comfortable with. If you do not like him touching your head then ask him not to. If you are at the point of having sex than this should be an easy conversation. This is your treat for him so enjoy it by teasing and watching his reactions. If you do not want him to release in your mouth, let him know and you will be able to tell by his movement and the fact that his testicles will get small and tighten up. DO NOT DO WHAT YOU DO NOT WANT TO DO! Practice, Practice, and Practice will make you more comfortable and bold! Go for it!
Comments
mandm247 said
on 8/6/2009 AWESOME article...I never gave blow jobs in my past relationships or my 1st marriage until I met my now boyfriend. I believe that true love for me is what drives me to enjoy this and want to do this all the time to him and want to learn more new techniques to drive him crazy. I also believe that cleanliness is a BIG factor in this for us ladies.. our noses are very keen especially after children...we love a awesome smelling man especially in between the legs
xopinkdiamondz said
on 6/3/2009 Great article! It's true that a lot of women don't like this! I was one of them. AMazing topic. 5*
coachniquenya said
on 5/29/2009 Great article. It is sad how many people are too embarrassed to discuss this topic and lead alarmingly unsatisfactory sex lives. 5*
cjsroro said
on 5/23/2009 OMG! I enjoyed your article! Well written.
MichaelJMotta said
on 5/17/2009 Good job emphasizing that the tip is the most sensitive :)I have something to add to this - never is the tip more sensitive, even hypersensitive, than immediately after ejaculation. From a man's perspective, that's the time to . . . how should I put this? . . . cease local operations ;)