How to Do a Time Out With Your Toddler

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By HS Matlock
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As your baby turns into a toddler, temper tantrums start and they will test you to see what they can get away with every chance they get. It is important to establish good discipline routines to teach your toddler right from wrong. Using the time out method is very effective punishment for toddlers.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Instructions

Step 1

Choose a spot for your time outs. It should be away from things like the television, books, and toys. A spot on the floor, the first step on the staircase, or a chair in the dining area are all good choices for the time out location.
Step 2

When your toddler does something wrong, give them a warning. Tell them that they are going to go to time out if they do it again. If the child does the behavior again, immediately take the child to the time out spot.
Step 3

Put your toddler in the time out spot. Explain to them why they are in time out.
Step 4

Your toddler should stay in time out one minute for each year. If your child is two, time out should last two minutes. Use a timer that rings to signal when time out is over. If they take themselves out of time out, put them back in and the timer starts all over again. It is not unusual for the first couple of time outs to last up to half an hour or longer until the child learns. Be very firm or the time out will be useless.
Step 5

When the time out is over. Ask your toddler why they were in time out, and explain to them again why the behavior was wrong. Be sure to give them a hug and tell them that you love them.