How to Gain Someone's Trust

Relationships and friendships can be quite complicating tasks at times and take much work to maintain. Sometimes issues of trust may erupt and convincing someone to trust you can be quite challenging. It can be done though. Here are some methods to gain someone's trust.

Instructions

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      The first step to gaining someone's trust is to become one of their closest friends. People will only trust the ones closest to them. You need to get into their inner circle of trust by being closest to them.

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      Spend extended periods of time with them. You'll have to put a lot of work into the friendship or relationship. There's no getting around it. The most valuable aspect to gaining someone's trust, however, is spending time with them. They will have to know that you appreciate their company. Enjoy your time with them and make it count!

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      Be there for them during their tough times. If something tragic happens in their life you will have to be the shoulder they can cry on. If a person knows that you've been through the worst with them, they will be more willing to trust you.

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      Never lie to them. Always keep honesty your main priority. It's easier to damage a friendship with lies and lose their trust altogether than it is to keep their trust. Know that complete honesty is always the way to go.

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      Share your own thoughts and feelings with them. By opening up you will help encourage them to open up to you as well.

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      Be genuine with your intentions. People often go by their gut instincts and if they feel you're intentions are slightly off with their well being, they will not trust you. Gain their trust because you want to be a good friend.

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      Here is a simple one. Trust them. If you trust someone you'll usually get their trust in return.

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  • Wordart Jan 25, 2009
    Really good tips!
  • kimarkent Jan 23, 2009
    I'm glad to see someone hasn't lost all trust in everyone! for you to write this means you are a trusting person yourself... RRRring 5*
  • WolfTech Jan 20, 2009
    Excellent suggestions! You are certainly correct that friendships can be a complicated mess lol but they are worth it! :)
  • Kathymcbain Jan 19, 2009
    Great tips for gaining someone's trust.
  • Elander Guthrie Jan 19, 2009
    Excellent advice. Honesty is of utmost importance.

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