How to Read Female Body Language - Part 1 - Being the ALPHA MALE

In this ehow article I'm going to begin with a few ways that any male can use to read a woman's body language.

In the first part I'll write about how to first show male Dominance around women

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Yourself
• A spacious area where women frequently convene
• A paper
• A pencil

1. 
    
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   Mode 1. If you want to show confidence and dominance with people you don't know.
   
   First of all, you must find an open area where you can sit down in view of all the womwn around you. Then you settle yourself down and put some possessions on your side. That way you are 'marking' your territory. Keep you back straight and relax. Be sure to hold your head high so that you show that you are the 'alpha male' in this territory. As you are, look around you and make eyecontact with the women around you, lingering until THEY turn away or look down because if you look away first you are not showing any dominance.
   
   (if they look down - it means submission and you can approach them if you like)
   
   (If they turn away - it means that you don't interest them in anyway at the moment)
   
   (If you look away first - it means that you are being submissive and in no society does a women usually go for a person who submits easily.
   
   P.S. If you want to show your dominance keep steady eye-contact and stay confident)

2. Mode 2. If you want to show confidence and dominance with people you know.
   
   First of all, you must know your standing in her mind, whether you are a jerk, an idiot,, an imbecile, a geek, a freak, a wierdo... Once you establish that you have about an average idea of what you need to do. If you can, try find out what she usually likes in a man's PERSONALITY, not their looks bacause every woman's dream guy is usually hard to find. (It's best if you get her best friend to find out for you)
   
   Next is paying slightly more attention to her than other girls, BUT if it gets to a point where she asks you to do some chores for her, tell her you cannot tonight (or the specified day) because you are busy meeting some friends. Tell her you'll try but no promises. Also when you mention that you are busy, give a slight hint that you are meeting some important person to you - in other words say you are meeting your friends and your EX-GIRLFRIEND is going to be there.
   
   IMPORTANT - When you talk to her, stay smooth, calm and confident AND DON'T, I repeat DON'T, get pushed around by her. Joke a little but otherwise be or give the impression of control. It helps, if you give the incentive that you don't want to meet, your EX-GIRLFRIEND or such.
   
   With her remain more confident and if you pay her more attention, don't get pushed around by her. REMAIN in CONTROL!

3. In both of the above situations, you are exercising your 'Alpha Maleness' thus showing that you can be a provider, a protector and not a push over to thee occasional 'raid'.
   
   The next thing you should do after a confrontation, is note down the responses and reactions of each of the 'potential mate' you spoke to or saw you.
   
   In Part 2, I'll be discussing the various postures and positions which usually show fondness to the significant other.

Tips & Warnings

• DO show off a bit now or then when these Significant Others are around.
• DO show that you can be efficient, caring, ...
• DO show that you will listen to her
• DO show her that if she ever needs help or is in need of friendship, you will be ther
• DON'T follow my advice word for word, EXPERIMENT
• DON'T worry if at first you get REJECTED
• DON'T be shy to make the first MOVE
• DON'T be shy to INTRODUCE YOURSELF

[argyle]

on 1/13/2009 Nice article on body language and confidence. Can't wait to see part 2.

[wirelessjen]

on 1/13/2009 My suggestion is to know what type of lady you are looking for. Back when I was single, I might have noticed a guy who used these techiniques, but some of them could backfire. A book you should consider once you've start a serious relationship is the 5 love languages. If you know what it takes to keep her feeling loved, and the same for you, your relationship has a better chance of lasting.

[alexanderpolo10]

on 1/13/2009 Hello jenkinr. I've read quite a number of books relating to this fact and I think it is quite interesting how a part of the female human brain searches for specific attributes in a mate. I decided to write about it in a nutshell because otherwise thre would be too many perspectives. The books in particular, specifically comment about how there is not only one way to confront a 'potential mate' (obviously) but they discuss the most successful ones and usually all the methods relate how a male must act as an 'Alpha Male' and 'Leader of the Pack'.
Ale

[jenkinr]

on 1/13/2009 Interesting perspective.