How to Protect a Child From Abduction
The abduction of a child is a parent's worst nightmare. From toddlers to teens, it seems as though no child is completely safe in today's society. Even with our watchful eye and protective nature, it sometimes appears as though it is not enough. There are additional steps we can take to protect our children from being abducted, and while they may resent us, eventually they will be grateful that we care so much.
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Consider using a leash for younger children. Department stores carry a wide variety of fashionable leashes for children that they enjoy wearing. They are backpacks that are designed as monkeys, tigers and puppies. They are worn over the shoulder of the toddler, and the straps go around their bellies. The "tail" is what the parent holds onto, ensuring that the child is by her side and unable to be taken by a stranger. This is great when in a crowded area like a mall or amusement park. However, some parents and children shun leashes, claiming they're only for animals.
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Investigate your children's friends. Older children, especially teens, love freedom. This is when Mom and Dad have to be on their toes the most. If your child begins to mention the name of a friend with whom you are not familiar, it's your right to ask questions. Be sure to meet the friend and his parents before allowing your child to go to his home, and be sure you get the friend's address and phone number.
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Monitor the computer. The computer has become the easiest way for predators to lure innocent children. They do this through chat rooms and popular websites like MySpace. The predator may either act like a teen or openly admit he is older if he senses your child is an easy target. To prevent this, limit the amount of time your teen spends on the computer, and when she has logged off, log in to check the sites she has visited. Also make it a requirement for her to give you all of her passwords. If she refuses, do not let her use the computer.
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Drive your children as many places as you can. Yes, this can be an inconvenience, but at least you know they have reached their desired destination safely. Whether it be to a friend's home, a school dance or to the mall, you should take them yourself. If you're unable to provide this form of protection for them, make sure someone you know and trust can.
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Teach self-defense. There are many courses available, especially for women, that teach a variety of methods to break free from an attacker. The sooner your child knows these defense mechanisms, the better protected he will be.
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Keep an open line of communication. As children grow older, they begin to talk less to their parents--usually because they view them as a dictator instead of someone who cares. You are the one person who provides them with the security and protection they need. Unless they feel they can talk to you about anything, you can't provide this protection. Set aside a certain time of night when you can spend alone time with your child. This will let her know you care and make her more willing to turn to you rather than a stranger.
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Maximize the safety aspects of cellphones. If your child has one, make sure he calls you at pre-designated times, such as when you're scheduled to pick him up. Also, train your child to call you when any emergency or change of plans occurs.
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