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Step 1
Change behavior- act more mature and behave in a more pleasant manner. Stop begging and nagging or pleading for them to get back together with you, because those actions are counterproductive. Who wants to be with a whiner?
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Step 2
Convince- persuade the person to give the relationship another chance. Focus on the good times and benefits of remaining together. Explain without judgment or accusations, that you don’t want a divorce and that you think the marriage is worth saving.
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Step 3
Communicate- Express your plans and ideas for your relationship. If you’re hurt and very sad, Just make it clear that you really want another chance.
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Step 4
Admit- nobody is perfect and you are directly or indirectly responsible for the break up. To stop your divorce, you must accept and take responsibility for your faults and mishaps that contributed to the divorce.
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Step 5
Forgive- By you screaming, accusing or pointing fingers at your spouse, you’re giving him or her even more reason to divorce you. If you want to learn ‘how to stop my divorce’ you must release the anger and bitterness you feel toward your spouse. When forgiving, you may also find inner peace.
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Step 6
Suggest counseling- When your relationship is seriously damaged and need some assistance, you should consider getting some professional aid.
