How to Recognize the Signs That Your Wife is Cheating

Cheating & Infidelity

When you start to have the gut feeling that you are being cheated on by your wife, the odds that she is actually cheating are huge. The first step in finding out the truth is to recognize the signs of infidelity. Some of those signs are discussed here. Once you are pretty certain that she is stepping out on you, remain calm and move on to my article entitled "Hot to Catch a Cheating Spouse;" the link is provided below. As always keep your suspicions to yourself until you have indisputable proof.

Things You'll Need

• Desire to Know the Truth
• Patience
• Strength

Instructions

1. She starts spending more money than before on new clothes and more time taking care of her general appearance. Buys new lingerie that you aren't taking off and much sexier outfits that you never see her wearing. She starts hitting the gym with more enthusiasm than ever before and gets her hair, nails etc. done on a regular basis.

2. Often disappears for hours on end and becomes unreachable to you. She usually says she was shopping at the mall or in the supermarket. She may even have alibis that she was supposedly having coffee, lunch, dinner or drinks with. She guards her cell phone and privacy as diligently as the government guards Area 51.

3. Starts spending noticeably more time away from home. Spends more time with friends or a particular friend that she may have confided in. Expect to see an increased number of girl's nights out and/or abrupt changes in tone and mannerism when you walk in to say hello.

4. Starts using condoms or you notice that she is taking some form of birth-control that the two of you are not using.

5. Spends hours on the computer when you are not home or late at night when you are sleeping. Registers free email accounts and hides them from you or starts frequenting sites such as Facebook or MySpace which she never did before.

6. Her reading material has changed. Suddenly she is reading books and/or articles about seducing or getting men to fall in love, relationships or even infidelity.

7. She is not interested in having sex with you and the number of intimate encounters between the two of you has dropped dramatically. In the beginning intercourse may become more frequent and she may start treating you like a king (usually out of guilt) but as the affair wears on she will start to resent you, pick fights and frequent/hot sex will become the thing of the past.

8. You notice that her general attitude and mannerism have changed. Where as in before she used to complain about things around the house you have not done she is now silent, and you can't help but notice the spring in her step or the glow in her cheeks that you are not responsible for.

9. Some of the signs of infidelity discussed here are also applicable to men.

Resources

• How to Catch a Cheating Spouse