How to Quit a Job and Maintain Dignity and Respect
Quitting a job is never fun. While it may be a relief if the job has been causing stress and personal turmoil, it can still make you feel strange and become unsure of yourself and/or your decision. There is a way to take that step while maintaining your sense of self and making sure your reasons for leaving are properly expressed without stepping on too many toes or making a fool of yourself. All it requires is some time and careful thought.
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Instructions
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Go somewhere you can be alone. Sit and think about your employment situation and whether you really want to quit or not. If the situation has become unbearable, the environment is dangerous or abusive or you just don't think you can do it anymore, than it may be time for you to leave.
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Make a list of all the pros and cons of leaving, if you're still undecided. Once you decide to leave, make a list of all the reasons you're quitting. Be as specific as possible.
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Write a formal letter of resignation. Maintain a business tone and make sure you thank your employer for the opportunity and job, but express that it is no longer the right fit for you. Go ahead and list the reasons why you're leaving, but if the reasons include your boss and his or her mannerisms, habits, work ethic or personality, then be careful. State these as kindly and diplomatically as possible.
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Practice what you will say to them when you give them your letter or they inquire about it. Do a mock scene where a friend or family member acts like your boss and asks more questions, pries further and tries to push your buttons. Have them give you feedback about how you looked, sounded and held yourself.
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Go to work confident, happy and in control. When the confrontation occurs keep your chin held high, speak clearly and confidently and express all your feelings. Make sure you get the respect you deserve without resorting to pettiness.
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Tips & Warnings
Take your time to get your message across
Don't become hot-headed.
