Things You'll Need:
- Love
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Step 1
A Woman of PrayerKNOW WHAT YOU WANT
You and only you have the picture of your ideal wife. Remember to put character over countenance if you're going to make a great choice. As Proverbs said in Chapter 31, 'charm is fleeting and beauty is vain, but a woman ho fears God is to be praised.' You can get a worthy woman to become your wife if you truly know what you want in her and from her. -
Step 2
A Confident WomanDESPERATION IS A NO NO
You cannot go spouse-hunting in the spirit of desperation. It's the biggest mistake you can make with your life. Trust me, your spousal choice can make or break your life. So choose from a position of level-headedness. -
Step 3
PrepareBE PREPARED
People have lost opportunities of a lifetime because they did not know whether they were ready or not. Such people know what they want in a woman. However, they send the wrong signals and lose them eventually. Don't sabotage your own success. -
Step 4
Use FriendsUSE YOUR NETWORKS
Friends and family are wonderful channels to meet people. There is one caution, though. You cannot go all out on a relationship just because a respected family member or friend recommended the woman. It is your responsibility to assess her and to ascertain whether she is the right fit or not. -
Step 5
Respect the WomanTAKE HER OR LEAVE HER
For goodness' sake, don't leave a woman hanging. If you love her, get serious. If not, let her go. It is a travesty against good sense to keep a line of women waiting because of your indecision. Be respectful to the course of other people's lives.















Comments
jeremyjk said
on 7/20/2009 Great article...Thanks for writing!
gahazeleyes said
on 3/18/2009 Thank you! I know someone who needs to read this. Thanks.
tdpol1 said
on 1/14/2009 This will definitely help in my search. Great article!
brantsbabe said
on 1/13/2009 Very good advice.
Zibahrose said
on 1/4/2009 I know this was for men...but it is great! Thanx