How to Attract and Turn Men On

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By Susan Golis
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Heterosexual women need men to desire them. Women want a man that will stand by them through thick and thin, to love and to cherish them. Therefore, a woman will do whatever it takes to make sure that their man is crazy about them. If you are interested in connecting with a man, then read these tips on how to attract and turn men on.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

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Things You'll Need:

Mutual attraction to the opposite sex

Step 1

Women think that men never notice them well men see all. Men may not remark on your hair or your new outfit, or even your new lipstick, but trust me they do not overlook anything! Never greet a Man in an old torn up outfit and a beetle juice hairdo. That vision of you will be in the back of their mind forever! Therefore, if you want to turn on your man, then you need to look attractive whenever you are with him. Your appearance should be neat casual, light make-up, and be sure to wax your legs. (No man likes stubble) Manicure your nails also, because all men love to have their back scratched.
Step 2

Women need to be well versed in topics that stimulate a man's mind. Sports, politics, and world news are topics that interest men. If you can talk his language, and understand his point of view, then he will find you to be intriguing, you will win huge points. In fact, you will rise to the top, you will be his one woman in a million and you have just turned him on!
Step 3

Men like to flirt, and they love a woman that will flirt with them. They also prefer a woman to make the first move. Therefore, when you are engaging in conversation, reach out and lightly touch his arm or shoulder. This will tell him that you are into him. If he is into you, he will make the next move.
Step 4

On average Men age 14- until death, think about sex 99 percent of the day. Therefore, it is safe to say that Sex turns men on. All women need to understand that real men desire quality and not quantity sex. Women that respect themselves is a turn on.

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larryzafran said

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on 2/25/2009 This is a really great article. Step 3 is important to me, but gets me into trouble. The Step 1 tip in parentheses doesn't bother me in the slightest, but I suppose I'm in the minority. If anything, it means that the woman doesn't play by society's rules, which is admirable...lol.