How to Earn Respect

Whether at home, at work, or at play, we all desire to earn the respect of others. Maslow's hierarchy of needs indicates that the respect of others is a critical building block to achieving our full potential. Respect is earned by following a few time-honored principles.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

1. Show respect. Show appreciation for the accomplishments of others. Don't be critical. Backstabbing leaves people wondering how long it will be before you get around to backstabbing them.

2. Be honest. Sometimes the desire for respect leads us to stretch the truth or tell outright lies. Keep in mind that dishonesty is the quickest way to lose respect. Be honest with yourself. Admit your mistakes. Establish and keep moral standards. How many politicians have lost the public's respect for sacrificing their moral standards for personal gain?

3. Self-mastery. This is such a broad topic, but it needs to be included. It is hard to respect someone who is easily angered, or who frequently indulges their own whims.

4. Be kind. "I don't care how much you know until I know how much you care." Sincere kindness can never be overdone.

5. Use good language. Crude talk is an indicator of intellectual laziness and shows a lack of respect for those around you. Build your vocabulary, but don't be a showoff. Avoid filler words such as "ummm" or using the same phrase repetitively.

6. Be a hard worker. Complete assignments accurately and on time. Look for ways to contribute before you are asked to do so.

7. Build skills. Learning should be a lifelong adventure. Learning a new skill will build your own self confidence and earn the respect of others at the same time.

[eliptica]

on 12/21/2009 All excellent points. Respect is something you earn and also something you should show others!

[elaina0124]

on 12/20/2009 thank you for writing this article! very helpful, 5*

[Susanh]

on 2/4/2009 Excellent advice for garnering respect. 5*****

[slphilbrick]

on 1/28/2009 This is an excellent piece ! Well written and very appropriate tips on how to earn respect ! 5*

[prism]

on 1/3/2009 Fantastic article. I've always believed that respect is earned, not expected just because of your title. It also comes from a combination of traits, not just one. You've done a great job listing and describing them. Thanks!