How to Avoid Getting Pregnant

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With proper care, attention and knowledge, avoiding pregnancy is a challenge all women can meet.

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Difficulty: Moderately Easy

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Step1
Steering clear of genital-to-genital contact with men - though not the preferred solution for everyone - is the most surefire way to avoid conception.
Step2
For other methods, know some basic body facts: Ovulation is when an egg is released into the fallopian tube, where conception usually takes place. If your cycle is regular (many are not), you'll ovulate about 14 days before you expect your next period.
Step3
Learn to recognize your body's signs of ovulation, including tender breasts, clear and stringy discharge or, for some women, a twinge in the lower abdomen. Be extra careful during that time.
Step4
Settle on a birth control strategy (pill, cap, diaphragm, shot, implant, condoms - so many to choose from!) and stick with it every time. Every time.
Step5
Avoid getting lax and falling off the birth control wagon. If you don't like the method you've chosen, find another contraceptive you like better and stick with it.

Tips & Warnings

  • If you have a steady partner, sharing responsibility with him (he reminds you about the pill, he buys the diaphragm jelly) is an excellent way to improve your success rate.
  • About three-quarters of conceptions occur the day of or the day before ovulation, but sperm can live in the body for up to five days. So sometimes, though infrequently, a woman might have unprotected sex on Monday, not ovulate until Friday, and still get pregnant.
  • If your cycle is irregular, be especially vigilant about using birth control. You just don't know when your body might be releasing an egg.

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on 7/8/2007 As displayed in the movie "Knocked Up" A woman cant get pregrant if she is on top - gravity and all :p

(while that is funny it is very un-true of course - fyi)

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on 11/22/2005 Sex is not a "bad" thing, and humans have sexual instincts just like any other animal. Whether or not you're planning on having sex, always be prepared. Choosing what kind of birth control is right for you can be difficult; always make sure you've done ample research on the methods available to you and remember that NOTHING is foolproof. The only safe sex is masturbation (because abstinence is, by definition, the lack thereof). Even if there is no direct genital contact, semen can be spread on hands and through other indirect contact. Also, there does not have to be an ejaculation for pregnancy to occur. You can talk to your partner, close friends, family, doctor, or visit a local clinic (such as Planned Parenthood or other free/open gynecological clinics) to help decide which method could be right for you. Also keep in mind that most birth control methods do not protect against the spread of HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases.

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on 11/22/2005 Get a book like "Taking Charge of Your Fertility" which explains Fertility Awareness (NOT the old fashioned and flawed rhythm method). Or, learn to chart your fertility signs on a website such as FertilityFriend. You can also use Ovusoft software. The charting sites usually don't allow you to use their method as birth control, but you CAN use it in conjunction with a barrier method, and feel more in control if you do decide to have children.

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on 11/22/2005 If you are uncomfortable talking to your kids about sex and relationships, there are some amazing books out there that you can just leave in their rooms. Believe me, they will read them. It's a start - knowledge is key.

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on 11/22/2005 If you take the pill and are on antibiotics, you risk becoming pregnant. The antibiotics reduces the pill's effectiveness. Use a condom as well during and for a week after the last antibiotic pill. Better to be safe than sorry!

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