How to Enjoy the Holidays When Alone

Alone for the holidays might make some people a little anxious, but there's no reason for that. Independent and carefree, follow your own schedule and enjoy your favorite traditions without compromise. You can control how and when you celebrate. You're the captain of your own ship. Celebrating a holiday alone can be one of the most rewarding ways to do it. With no one to answer to, nobody to combine schedules with and no huge hosting event, your holiday will truly be spent exactly how you wish. There is plenty to keep you busy, grateful and entertained during the holidays. That's true even when you are alone.

Instructions

1. Take this opportunity to sit down with the local listing of holiday happenings. Circle everything you'd enjoy. Before you turn in to the Scrooge and bah-humbug all the revelers around you, consider this. Being by yourself for the holiday means you don't have to compromise your plans, traditions or gift ideas. You are in complete control of how you spend your time.

2. Now consider ways to help you stop dwelling on the fact you're alone. You can volunteer at a local soup kitchen, a shelter serving a holiday meal, the Humane Society, and a whole host of other non-profits. This not only helps them; it helps you, too. Giving of yourself almost always guarantees increased feeling of goodwill, gratitude and empathy. These are great qualities that only add to your independent holiday.

3. Take this time to create bushels and baskets of holiday goodies. Being alone makes it easy to fill the kitchen with treats you love, and nobody's going to nibble on your cookies, except maybe you. Package them up and hand-deliver them to your neighbors. Chances are they'll either return a basket or invite you in.

4. Make reservations at your favorite restaurant. It's difficult to get a table for large groups during the holiday season, but single seats are almost always available. Treat yourself and indulge. Have an appetizer, salad, main course, drinks, and dessert.

5. Decorate for the holiday. Even just a little will fill your home with cheer and comfort. Being alone for the holiday doesn't mean you can't celebrate. It simply gives you more control of how you'll enjoy it.

Tips & Warnings

• If you are still anxious about being alone for the holidays, let your friends and family know your schedule and when you are available. They may be able to alter their plans to include you.

• Celebrating alone is exhilarating, but always celebrate responsibly. Never put yourself in a compromising position.