How to Pick Merry Christmas or Happy Holidays

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By jpwriter
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In recent years controversy has developed over the well wishes that we use around Christmastime. The United States is a very diverse culture which is something that makes us great. In this diversity though some can find they don't know what to say, so here's a quick guide.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Instructions

Step 1

Consider your audience. Do you know the person to whom you are deciding to wish a holiday greeting? If this person is a friend or the cashier at the coffee shop that just wished you a "Merry Christmas" it is probably safe to return the sentiment.
Step 2

Although you may be a very festive, all into Christmas person, it's important to realize that everybody is different, and that holidays have different meanings to different people. Error on the side of caution and wish someone a "Happy Holiday" if you don't know them. You can change the greeting a little bit to say "Enjoy the Holidays" or some other variation.
Step 3

Remember that not everyone is a Christian or has religious faith. Yes, it's a touchy subject often bringing up strong emotions about wrong, right, morality, and so much more, but it's still a true statement. Since Christmas is the celebration of the birth of Christ, there might be non-believers, so even if your opinion differs, an Atheist is entitled to his or her opinion, as are people of other faiths.
Step 4

Enjoy your holiday season. Whether you wish Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, Happy Hanukkah, Happy Kwanzaa, just make sure to enjoy yourself. Part of celebrating is respect. If you don't understand why some people or religious denominations don't celebrate Christmas or the same holidays as you, develop curiosity and do some research. Although we are not all the same in belief, we are all human which bonds us beyond belief. Happy Holidays.