How to Handle Family Tension at Your Wedding

Tensions between relatives can dampen the joy of your wedding day, but with the right attitude and a positive approach, you can practically eliminate family friction.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately challenging

Things You’ll Need:

• Stress Management Counseling
• Stress Relief Products
• Wedding Planner Book
• Aromatherapy Gift Set
• Champagne
• Dinner Reservations

1. Present a united front with your spouse-to-be. Talk about your apprehensions and decide how you'll face them as a couple.
2. Open a checking account expressly for wedding expenses, and have all contributors (parents, in-laws) each submit a predetermined amount. This will prevent unnecessary comparisons and the 'I paid for this' superiority complex.
3. Sit down with everyone involved (individually, if the situation is awkward) and air your concerns. Explain that your wedding day should be one of your happiest and that family members can help by putting aside their differences for one day.
4. Split up wedding duties - if you want to ask the bride's biological father to give her away, consider granting her stepfather the first dance with her at the reception.
5. Separate hostile parties. At the ceremony, seat your mother and her spouse in the front row and your father and his spouse in the third row; at the reception, avoid forcing them to sit at the same table.
6. Talk to your officiant if things seem too hard to handle. This person can talk you through your concerns and can be a positive source of support.

Tips & Warnings

• Show affection and respect when communicating with family members - let them know you value their opinions and beliefs.

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