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Step 1
We all want to be liked, but sometimes we want to be loved and accelerate the process for that extra special someone. There is a great secret within these steps, so keep reading. These techniques work best for someone you just met because they are still analyzing and deciding how much they like you. It's in that time period where you want to go for it!
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Step 2
VISUAL. The first thing you want to do is look extra special. If you're a female Straighten your hair, or wear that sparkly necklace, maybe some eye liner. If you're a guy you know what shirt you look good in.
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Step 3
SCENT. You want the scent to last. Spray the perfume/cologne on the back of your head on your hair. It lasts a lot longer that way.
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Step 4
Here's the big secret. Where do you go? The goal is to get the other person's heart to accelerate on and off. You want them to get excited without being able to help it. Horseback riding, Scary/Action Movies, Roller Coasters... etc. all those are great ideas. When a person's heart accelerates a little and they get a tiny bit of sweat, their subconscious mind tries to justify it. They attribute their body' s response to liking you and feeling excited around you. There have been tons of studies done and it makes a huge difference where you take your date. So plan carefully for this one.
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Step 5
LISTEN. Listen very intently, not only to what your date is saying, but to how they are communicating. Observe how long they pause between their sentences and their pace. Try to match their tone of voice. This will make the other person feel very comfortable and open up more. Try using words they like to use as well... Not to the point where it's obvious of course. If your date says "cool" a lot, use it here and there.
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Step 6
WATCH. Watch out for body language. If your date is nodding their head, they are listening, but when they're nodding gets faster then stop droning on and change the subject. If your date' s arms are crossed it might mean that they are a little closed and uninterested. Try talking about something you know they like to talk about for sure and expand on it in this case. If you're date is leaning close towards you (whether seated across a table or on a chair next to you in the movies) Things are going well. If you find they are a little avoidant give them their space, but also give them a chance to get closer. Put your hand across the table where it is easy for them touch... etc.
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Step 7
Have Fun! The last step is to just enjoy yourself and have fun. Expect the other person to have fun as well and act accordingly, you'll be surprised how much the other person will try to meet the expectation you set in your own mind.
