How to Get The Most Out of a Baby Shower

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By FurryLoo
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People want to help out and get new moms the things they need. Here are some tips.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

A very good friend to plan the shower with.

Step 1

First, you will need a friend or relative that you can plan the party with. Yes, we know, you're not supposed to plan your own party - but it is helpful if you are communicating with the host that she can ensure that you get the items you need (she can include themes in the invitations, etc).
Step 2

Don't announce the sex before the baby shower. If you have already done this, don't despair. But there are advantages to holding off on telling the sex (let people know you will announce it at the shower). One BIG advantage is that you will get MORE stuff and less clothes. Once people know the sex, they are more likely to buy clothes, clothes and maybe some blankets for you. Baby clothes are too hard for people not to buy. But if they don't know the sex of the baby yet - they are more likely to pick you items you will need (bedding, crib, etc).
Step 3

Invite, invite, invite. Too many people worry about overinviting. This is not really possible. Usually about 95% of people say they will come, but only 60% typically show. It is not a bad idea to host a few separate showers (maybe one with co-workers), one with family and one with friends. Otherwise, don't hesitate to invite everyone - it will make for a good time.
Step 4

On the invitation - don't announce the sex. If you have already announced the sex - send out a neutral invitation. Ask your host to list ideas on each invitation. For example, on some she could request that they bring TOYS; on another, she could request that they bring BEDROOM stuff. There are other categories: BATHROOM, SLEEPING, OUTDOOR, TRAVEL. Have her word it this way: "please help the new parents by bringing something that will help them TRAVEL with their new baby."
Step 5

Go green. And I don't mean a color scheme. Tell your host to include a small note: "to celebrate going green and loving the environment, feel free to bring lovingly used items." You might be thinking, what? But honestly, if people bring used items, you will get some GREAT stuff. I knew someone who did this and she got a breast pump (normally $300), a crib, a basinet and much more.
Step 6

Follow-up invitation. This is utterly important! Ask your hostess to send out a reminder invitation 5-6 days before the shower that includes directions. Seriously, people need this. It is also advisable that she call the day before and remind people. People need this too.
Step 7

Spread the word. Casually remind others of your shower if you happen to be talking to them (only if you know they are actually coming). And don't hesitate to tell them what you need. Even better, if they ask, don't hesitate to tell them what you DON'T need. If you have enough clothes, tell them. Or you may have enough of a certain size, tell them this too. People want to get you something you need or want.

Comments

jaredsgirl said

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on 3/11/2009 I think this is great advice! New moms need lots of stuff and people understand that. Thanks for sharing. 5*

Malzeke said

on 1/25/2009 Very EXCELLENT. I never thought about pt 2 but it makes good sense.

cadence said

on 12/14/2008 Excellent tips for a great baby shower.

AllFYB said

on 12/2/2008 Thanks for the tips and letting everyone know that reminders are a blessing for any party goer. I will never understand getting a months notice on anything..