How to Tame Toddler Tantrums

Does your toddler throw a tantrum whenever he/she is displeased? It is a trying time but here are some tips on how to deal with tantrum troubles. Sometimes by readjusting your own behavior you may find a big difference.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Lots of patience

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   First and foremost, when you are faced with a tantrum NEVER lose your cool. Your toddler wants attention and it's best that you don't give a negative one even if it's your first reaction. Cause a distraction instead. It's much easier, less time consuming, and your toddler will have a lower blood pressure. Tickling and making funny faces and noises are very effective.

2. Cuddling is another way to soothe your upset child. Be kind and let them know that you understand their frustration. Some children aren't able to explain how they feel so try putting words into their mouths by saying something like, "maybe you're angry because of so and so.." and if your child agrees then explain that it's OK to be angry but not OK to lose control.

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   Sometimes letting your toddler vent out is better than interfering if you feel that there is a build-up and that your child just needs to scream. But if you feel that your child is getting stressed or feels angry then you should take steps in making your child's day less stressful and more fun. The results would be a calm and happy toddler!

[labellefleur100]

on 2/3/2009 Great advice! Don't lose your cool! 5* and Rccmd

[tocuriousgeorge]

on 1/28/2009 Great advice. I have four children and two of them went through a terrible temper tantrum stage, but both of them turn out to be my most mild manner children! Your advice works. Staying cool and NEVER try to spank a child that is fitting-They are already out of control and this point and it would only take things to the next out of control level. 5*

[Ladymarie]

on 11/30/2008 Great ideas. The key is to stay calm! Thanx