How to Get a Girl to Like You

Usually, when we like a girl, our insides turn to jell-o and we end up not talking to her for the fear of messing up. This means we either not talk to her at all or we alienate our self from her.

Do not worry; here are some tricks that you can use to make her like you at least enough to go out with you.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

1. Make sure you do not replicate all the other losers that may like this girl. Losers equate to those who try to stick to their object of affection 24/7. Have your own life so you can share it and show it to her.

2. Be yourself. Show her what you can do but make sure that it is really you who you are showing or she may end up having the wrong impression about you.

3. Who says flirting is bad? Casual flirting, when done in moderation, is actually a good way of expressing to her that you are interested and that you find her very attractive. Women like men who have the right amount of confidence. If you feel tensed or pressured whenever you do this, then try breathing exercises first to calm your nerves down.

4. Actually communicate with her. Not just talk to her where it is a one way conversation. Either you talk and she listens or the other way around. Make sure you keep your first “talk” very positive and light.

5. Be a hopeless romantic, even just for a few days. And by this we do not mean the Valentines Day package of roses and chocolates in heart shaped containers. This means you take interest on her and acknowledge her qualities as a human being.

[michaeledgett]

on 2/15/2009 Very nice tips :). I especially agree with step one because girls cannot be under the impression that a guy is just like every other guy out there.