Catching a Cheating Spouse

Catching a cheating spouse can be one of the most effective ways to unveil the truth when your partner is acting deviously. No one wants to find they he has been deceived, but it allows him to move on. Catching a cheating spouse is best done with some sneaky spying, paper chasing, and most of all, honest confrontation.

Things You'll Need

• Credit card statements Cell phone statements Voice activated recorder Video camera

Instructions

Instructions

1. Check up on your spouse's spending habits by reviewing credit card statements from the last several months. Compare spending habits from a time when you felt your spouse was being honest and faithful to the time when you felt that she began to be dishonest. Write down any discrepancies and note anything suspicious such as motel charges, expensive restaurants and even large amount transactions.

2. Locate all phone records and review any unknown numbers. If there are numbers that appear repeatedly that you do not know, call that phone number. You need not say anything, but you can hear the other person's voice, and listen to a voice mail message. Phone records are an accurate method of learning about your spouse's whereabouts and contacts.

3. Set up a sound activated recorder in your home if you feel that your spouse is bringing unwanted persons into your house. Motion or voice activated recorders will lie in wait until a noise is made, then they will begin to record. You can review these tapes daily until you feel you have recorded an incriminating phone conversation or personal encounter. These tapes can also discount any suspicious feelings that you may have if you fail to record anything out of the ordinary.

4. Set up a video camera in a place where you have a high suspicion of activity in your home. If your guest room magically looks different every few days yet you have no guests, then perhaps your spouse is bringing someone home. Conceal the camera with plants, clothing, or even place it in a slightly opened closet. Be certain to cover any part of the camera that may be visible, especially any blinking lights. Review the recorded tapes daily and reset the video camera if you feel the need for more evidence.

5. Confront your spouse about his cheating ways, and if he denies the facts, present him with your evidence. If your spouse somehow makes things appear contrary to what they seem, hire a private detective. Private detectives can follow, photograph and take note of all things your spouse does while you are away.

Tips & Warnings

• Do not continue to accuse an honest and faithful spouse of cheating. It may drive your marriage apart.