How to Potty Train (Indicators)

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Hurray Potty Training is Done!!!

Potty training can be a nightmare if your child is not ready. Look for signs that he or she is ready.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

A lot of TLC
Good timing
Patience

Step 1

There are a few common indicators that I noticed in my own children that indicated they were not ready for toilet training.

1. The child never indicates that he needs to use the toilet, until he has finished using the bathroom, that is on your nice clean furniture. This is blatant refusal and may lead to desperation for a parent, but you must not REACT. Stay calm and let your child know that it is OK and when he is ready to use the toilet, to let you know. You could let the child pick out some underwear and put it where you store your pampers. Even let the child get the pamper each time. One day he'll bring you the underwear instead. Be careful not to degrade your child and compare him or her to other children. Each child is different and that is OK.

2. He or she does not want to sit on the toilet. (Note: I don't recommend using those child potty training seats, because of a simple fact. When you go out, are you going to lug it around? Probably not, if you must, alternate between normal toilet usage and the potty. You'll thank me later.)
Step 2

Common indicators that he/she may exhibit when ready to use the potty.

1. The child removes his/her clothing. Here, that independent streak is starting to shine. Ask the child if he would like to try to use the toilet like a Big Boy or Big Girl. If the child say no, assure him that it's OK and to let you know when he's ready. Perhaps even let the child hang a picture on the bathroom wall.

2. He or she removes their pamper after going to the bathroom. This is a indication of an uncomfortable feeling. Capitalize on this feeling and ask to child if he would like to try on some underwear. Remember, ASK: DO NOT FORCE.

3. He or she refuses to wear a pamper. This is the perfect opportunity to break out a stash of Spider man or Barbie underwear to get them excited about using the toilet.

4. The child tells you verbally that they have used the bathroom. This is a great time to attempt to put your child on the toilet. The child may not have finished using the toilet, because he feels uncomfortable in the pamper and may actually finish on the toilet.
Step 3

Children potty train at different ages. If you and your child are getting upset and angry, I suggest putting it off until your child displays one of the indicators above. This is what I did with my children and it worked for me. IT WAS STRESS FREE, well not completely, but it was pretty easy going. I am sure there are other ideas that work just as well, but my main point is that the process should not disrupt your life and household.