How to Find A Good Man

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Find A Good Man

Everyday there are headlines that claim to teach you how to find a good man. Ladies everywhere seem to just think that there are no good guys out there, in fact some women have given up on ever trusting any guy. I am here to tell you that there are still lots of good guys out there and I am here to show you how to land the right one for you.

Difficulty: Easy

Instructions

Step 1

Stop the chase. There is nothing that turns a good guy off than a desperate woman even if he is looking. I know we have heard this over and over again but it is very important to get this down and accept it. You can attract a guy without chasing him. This could be the only advice I give and you will go a long way with this truth but I have other things to help you to continue your journey.
Step 2

Secondly, be the girl that you would want your son to bring home (you know what I mean). I will say it again; be the "good catch" that you would want for yourself. You will only attract the kind of guys that you reflect, even guys that are not serious want a decent looking girl once in a while, how much more a guy that you want to take you seriously. Remember "Mr. Right" has a heart as well and he could also be guarded trying to make sure he also makes a good decision and gets a "good catch" for himself. Not only physically but mentally and emotionally, although no one is perfect.
Step 3

He is always around. There is a very good chance that that good guy you're looking for is not out of your reach. He is at you job, school, church, city or he is probably your family friend. One mistake we all make is trying to look for the right person in exotic locations. He is usually next door, you probably see him everyday, granted everybody's situation is not the same so use your discretion.
Step 4

Be friendly not flirty! Try your best to resist the temptation of being an amateur porn star just to get a man, and also avoid guys that come off the same because they may only be looking for the obvious. A good and responsible man knows you are beautiful without the extra skin, in fact being there for him and gaining his confidence will go a long way in winning his heart but you don't want to be like his male friends either. You can keep a good balance by not always being there for his every need, make yourself scarce sometimes, appear busy or something, give him time to miss you a little, he will know your value but don't over do anything.

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healthylife said

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on 12/12/2008 How To Find, Approach, Attract And Date The Right Man ?
Great guides at :

http://123guides.blogspot.com/2008/12/how-to-approach-and-date-right-man.html

valarie7979 said

on 12/9/2008 No, I got the last one! Good article.

JuliesWorld said

on 11/26/2008 Me too, but when I married my good man I felt bad for single girls. I was feeling like wow, now all the good men are taken. I just got the last one.