Things You'll Need:
- Patience
- Gentleness
- Understanding
- Graciousness
- Tact
- Humility
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Step 1
Magic of Making Up GuideGo out with friends, but don't overdo it. The only reason you are going out with your friends is to keep yourself busy and from getting too lonely. Don't let your friends indulge you into too much partying and never let them introduce you to someone else on the rebound. That is not helpful at all.
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Step 2
Don't show desperation. This is an absolute turn off. T.W. Jackson explains the tricks to get your man or woman back in his Magic of Making Up guide. One of things he suggest is not to send numerous text messages because soon they will be ignored.
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Step 3
Agree to the breakup. Give it time and then make your move. You can wait for a period of about 30 days and then send a note that you understand the reason for the breakup and you are sorry for what happened and respect the decision, but you hope that there is room for discussion. Don't mention yet about getting back your ex. Just ask for an open discussion where you can talk about things in more details and during the cooling off period.










