How to Propose a Toast at a Wedding or Social Gathering

With holiday office parties coming and weddings and social functions common you may want to brush up on how to propose a toast.

Instructions

1. TIMING: Wait for the appropriate moment. The host or hostess, or someone close like a father or best man, should usually propose the first toast of the evening. If they don't wait until after the main course is done to give them that chance. Make sure you chose a moment when glasses are full. Think through your remarks before you begin so it goes smoothly.

2. The intro: Stand at the table or in a prominent place and get the rooms attention. Introduce yourself briefly, and how you tie in to the person being honored or the company or project if it is a business affair.

3. The lead in: Direct your remarks and attention to the host, hostess, or person being honored. Convey your feelings and compliments. Humor works well if it is not going to cause embarrassment or discomfort. Avoid anything too personal. Express your hopes and wishes for the person or moment being toasted.

4. The Toast: Raise your glass and state "To.... in 3 to 4 words. Be very brief here so people can join in and repeat the phrase.

5. Drink. A small drink is appropriate. Don't down the glass.

Tips & Warnings

• Have non-alcoholic drinks available for those who don't drink alcohol or wish to drink less. This is especially important if many toasts may be made. a

• Keep it brief. It is not the place for a full speech or long story.

Resources

• Read this Article in Spanish