How to Propose a Toast at a Wedding or Social Gathering

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Propose a Toast at a Wedding or Social Gathering

With holiday office parties coming and weddings and social functions common you may want to brush up on how to propose a toast.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Instructions

Step 1

TIMING: Wait for the appropriate moment. The host or hostess, or someone close like a father or best man, should usually propose the first toast of the evening. If they don't wait until after the main course is done to give them that chance. Make sure you chose a moment when glasses are full. Think through your remarks before you begin so it goes smoothly.
Step 2

The intro: Stand at the table or in a prominent place and get the rooms attention. Introduce yourself briefly, and how you tie in to the person being honored or the company or project if it is a business affair.
Step 3

The lead in: Direct your remarks and attention to the host, hostess, or person being honored. Convey your feelings and compliments. Humor works well if it is not going to cause embarrassment or discomfort. Avoid anything too personal. Express your hopes and wishes for the person or moment being toasted.
Step 4

The Toast: Raise your glass and state "To.... in 3 to 4 words. Be very brief here so people can join in and repeat the phrase.
Step 5

Drink. A small drink is appropriate. Don't down the glass.