How to get over the fear approaching beautiful women

The thought of approaching a beautiful woman can be scary to some guys, as they are afraid of the deadly words they believe most women will utter the phrase, 'Sorry, but I’m not interested.' Learn how to get rid of the fear of talking to women you like by reading the following steps.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

1. Be confident. Besides a man physical appearance, what attract women the most to guys is when they are self-assured and believe they can get what they want. Keeping your head up and giving, a friendly glance at a woman will get her attention. If she returns the flavor by smiling back, take that as an opportunity to start chatting with her.

2. Act natural. The worst thing a man can do is use a corny line that makes a woman roll her eyes or laugh in his face, and walk away. Just introduce yourself with a simple hello and ask what her name is. Most women will appreciate it and continue with the small talk.

3. Analyze what she is doing. You can find attractive women everywhere-- at the bus stop reading a newspaper, bookstore, school, stores, etc. If she is doing something that catches your attention, e.g., reading a book, build up a conversation from there and politely ask what the book is all about. Listen more about her interests then show yours by asking her out on a date.

4. Stop making excuses. So you see a very good-looking lady but you have all these thoughts in your head that she is too good for you, she already has a boyfriend, guys hit on her all the time and she will just shoot you down. The first thing you need to is STOP with the negative attitude! Keep in mind that she is only human and she has flaws just like the rest of us mortals. Take a chance getting to know her and if she does reject you, understand it is not the end of the world and keep trying. The more you try, the better you will find that is easier to talk to pretty women.

Tips & Warnings

• Learn to work on being less nervous around women. Practice with a female friend or relative to get a head start.
• Save all the flattery for later, if you finally got a beautiful woman. It may seem fine to say she is attractive but going over the top will turn her off.
• Observe a woman's body language when you are talking to her. You can tell if the mutual liking goes ways or not.

[acherryscott]

on 8/5/2009 This may also help.
http://www.ehow.com/how_5252407_understand-black-woman.html

[Ballzy]

on 11/6/2008 Thanks for the extra tips! Ill try some of these tips this weekend! Thanks 5*