How to Tell If Someone Is Lying About Using Drugs
If you suspect a loved one is using drugs, it's important to understand the signs and symptoms. Unfortunately, individuals with substance-abuse problems are often secretive and lie about their behavior. You will need to pay less attention to their words and focus on their actions.
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Watch for mood changes, which comprise one of the most obvious signs of drug use. A person may go from being extremely happy to irritable and angry. Chart the mood changes to look for regular patterns.
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Be on the lookout for disappearing money. People who are using drugs often spend money quickly without any explanation. If you share a bank account with this person, you may notice large cash withdrawals.
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Notice irresponsible behavior. Drug use can make a previously responsible person miss work or school without explanation. The person may lie and make excuses for the frequent absences.
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Heed physical changes. Drugs take a toll on the body. Depending on which substances are being abused, you may notice unexplained weight loss. Some drugs can cause more obvious signs, such as missing teeth in a previously healthy person.
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Observe heightened aggression. Many substances alter chemicals in the brain, which can increase aggression. This change can result in irritability and physical violence.
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Tips & Warnings
Don't place blame. Most people with a substance-abuse issue won't admit to having a problem. When discussing the matter, don't place blame on your loved one. Refraining from doing so will help open the lines of communication.
Seek support for yourself. Substance abuse doesn't only affect the abuser; it affects those closest to that person. And as much as you try to persuade the person to get help, it has to be his decision. It's important to get help for yourself in dealing with this situation. Look for a group in your community such as Al-Anon. (Follow the link in Resources.)
