How to Ask Women's Phone Number

So you just met an attractive woman at a coffee shop. How will you connect yourself with her, and ask her phone number? This article focuses on how to ask a woman her phone number. If you don't want to miss opportunities you better read it.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

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   Make Your First Approach
   
   At this time, you should have prepared in mind some interesting conversation starters to begin with.
   Approach that woman, and show her of what you are made of. Show her that you are a man who has complete confidence within yourself.

2. Be Optimistic
   
   Express positive outlook. In the first four seconds, her awareness of you is groping. She wants to recognize what type of person you are. Al though, at first she might look at your physical appearance, this is not the only reason why she should be attracted to you. But the positive outlook that you embrace. And that is by showing how unique you demonstrate your self confidence. Show confidence by talking to her in a congenial way.

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4. Keep Your Purpose in Mind
   
   Don't let your mind wonder away, at the same time, don't worry about rejection. If your gonna get it, then it means that you have to experience it. No man has earn something without working on it. I am talking about your inner strength. With every attempt, you should gain some strength, even if you fail the first several times.
   
   But make sure you know your goal, and should stick with it. This way you will not forget why in the world you approached her in the first place.

5. Build Trust
   
   In order to make her feel comfortable with you, you must build up trust with her. You can do this during your
   conversation. An important thing you can do is, make her laugh, or smile. Say something that will move her heart. or will light her emotions.

6. Catch Her Needs, or Interest
   
   She could be mentioning some of her interest during your conversation. At that time, pay close attention. For example, she might have interest in going to concert downtown. If so, tell her that you been thinking about doing that. Or you might discover a problem of her. If you can think of a solution, you can use it to get her phone number.

7. Do it!
   
   Alright, so let say you already got her incentives. So what is the reason for it? This is because you don't want to look awkward, asking for phone no. without any apparent reason. So you use her incentive to give you a good and clear reason to give you her phone no.
   
   Here is an example of a situation: Let say she told you that her dog is kind of acting weird. Tell her this. "Hey, here is my phone," hand her your phone. "I know a good animal doctor around. I am going to see him later on. You can give me your number and we can go there together."
   
   Of coarse you can make your own, because that is just an example. In other situations you may find each of them different, it is better if you prepare yourself for these.