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Step 1
Always open the door for her. Don't just go through and then hold the door open from the opposite side. Use your arm which hopefully has a little bit of strength to prop the door open for her as you watch her pass through. Then follow behind her.
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Step 2
Make as much eye contact as you can with her when you're having a conversation. A little trick is to try and notice the color of her eyes. A little eye contact goes a LONG way.
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Step 3
Along with eye contact during a conversation, also make sure you're listening to what she has to say. A nod is good from time to time, but a sweet and related response is even better.
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Step 4
Smile at her whenever you can. If she knows you're happy with her, she'll be happy to.
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Step 5
After a tinkle, make sure you put the toilet seat down because women, they don't like that. It really only takes one second.
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Step 6
When walking down a sidewalk, always be nearest to the road. This way, if a car were to splash water or dirt, it would only get on you and not her.
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Step 7
Text message her something sweet when she least expects it. When does she least expect it? When you're both together. If you're out with a group of friends and she's talking to her girlfriends, give her a little text love and it will make her smile at the surprise.
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Step 8
If you're out getting fast food, before you finish your order, always ask her if there's anything else she wants. Usually, it's a no, but just the fact that you asked is nice.
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Step 9
During any conversation during the day, make note in your head of something that she says that you would normally not even discuss. Bring that up in a conversation a half-day later, and she'll be happy that you have paid attention to such minute details.
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Step 10
You'd better remember your anniversary and her birthday, but if you can go beyond that and remember her father, mother and sibling's birthdays - that's really really good and will make her very very happy.
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Step 11
Last but not least, mean what you say - and say what you mean.











Comments
RiteNow said
on 11/5/2008 You are so on target! Great article. 5*
gensparkie said
on 11/5/2008 I love the one about remembering a small detail and bringing it up a few days later. Great way to make someone feel heard and beloved!
alienangel555 said
on 11/5/2008 What a sweetheart. Where were you when I was in my twenties. lol. 5 stars.
Psychstudent said
on 11/5/2008 step 4 is the most important to me. If I know that I make him happy then everything in the world is good. It lets me know that i am appreciated. Thanks