How to Keep Your Man From Cheating On You

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By Kristi Patrice Carter
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Stop his cheating before it starts!

So, here's the truth. Men cheat because of a lack of emotional love that they receive from you. They have insecurities, and when they aren't shown enough attention, aren’t reassured and occasionally sung to – they may cheat. Sounds like bull doesn't it? You bet it does. Men cheat because they choose to cheat. In this article,I will teach you how to keep your man from cheating.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

Step 1

Understand why men cheat. The primary reason men cheat is usually to have sex. Yep, that's about it. The truth is that most men who cheat are either feeling like they're not getting enough, or they're not getting enough variety. So, they look for a woman they think they can have sex with, and ideally, this woman will have no strings attached and there will be no emotion required at all. Now that you know why, there's things you can do to stop his cheating.
Step 2

Give them enough. Assuming that he doesn't want so much as to start a friction fire, or that he's certifiable, try your best to quench his sexual thirst. When a man's woman is enough for him, and keeps him satisfied, he will not usually feel the desire to find it somewhere else. Besides, being intimate with your man strengthens bonds and makes your relationship better – not to mention the positive stress relief!
Step 3

Show him that he's the only one. When you compliment your man, it makes him feel great. He feels as if he is the only man in the world for you and that's how you want him to feel. Inflate his ego a bit. Be truthful, of course! Pick something that you love about your man and tell him about it. Why do you love it about him? What's so great about this trait of his? Trust me, he will appreciate the time you take to let him know each one of these things.
Step 4

Initiate sexual relations. When you are the one who initiates sex, your man will feel desired. This is a pretty important feeling for someone to get from their spouse. Often when people cheat, it is to feel desired. Show him that he is wanted right there at home!
Step 5

Give them enough variety. Change things up, spice things up, and keep things fun. You may want to experiment with role playing, lingerie, or other things that will keep him on his toes. Shock him, make him wonder what is coming next. This is one of the best ways to keep a man from cheating, because he's got it all at home and has no need to go find it.
Step 6

Well, that's it! Now go and put a smile on that man of yours, girl. Use what you got to keep your man!

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h3sh3 said

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on 11/1/2009 Additional, find the man you want, so that changing him is unnecessary. NO mothering ... he may start to act like a child. NO manipulating games! When he realizes them, repairing his ill feelings will be difficult! As you are going to be his only sexual outlet, giving him regular sexual releases are important, even when you don't feel like it. To boost his ego, when providing his release, ask him as if you need it (ie. "Hey honey, would you let me give you...").