How to spot the signs that your spouse is cheating

Every day marriages are ending across the country as a result of infidelity. You probably have a friend or a loved one that has been through a divorce due to their spouse cheating on them. If you suspect that your spouse may be cheating, know the signs to look for.

Difficulty: Easy

Instructions

1. Secretive phone calls are one sign of possible infidelity. Does your spouses cell phone ring more than usual? When he gets a call, does he leave the room in order to answer it or does he just ignore the call and let it go to voicemail? If so , it is a sign that he may have something to hide.

2. Excessive time spent online can become an issue. Does your spouse spend too much time on the computer. Does he wait until you are asleep or busy in another part of the house before he goes online. When you walk into the room, does he quickly close his browser or turn the monitor away so you can't see what he is doing. If so, you may want to wait until you have the oppurtunity to log onto the computer when he is not around and check the history of websites visited for any questionable content. If you know the password for his email address, go ahead and take alook to see if he is getting emails from other women.

3. Has his interest in sex decreased. Do you find that he is making excuses for not wanting to be intimate with you? If so, it may mean that he is being satisfied elsewehere.

4. Is your spouse being overly defensive? Usually when someone has something to hide they will become very defensive and sometimes even turn around and try to accuse you of lying or cheating in order to take the attention away from themselves.

[MotherDove]

on 11/7/2008 You definitely know what you are talking about! Any combination of the above is reason enough to be pretty sure something's going on. Good article.