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How to Stay in Touch With High School Friends in College

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By Katie O'Connor
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The bridge between high school and college is tough. You try to hang on to the relationships you had while making new ones at the same time. However, it is possible to embrace both worlds at once; you just have to put some effort into it. After all, the old saying is true: "Make new friends, but keep the old; one is silver and the other gold."

Difficulty: Challenging
Instructions

Things You'll Need:

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  1. Step 1

    Create an email and IM list. In college, you will communicate primarily using your computer. Therefore, creating an email or IM group will give you easy access to all your friends at once.

  2. Step 2

    Make it a point to send a group email once a week. If you send your friends an update on a regular basis, chances are, they will follow suit.

  3. Step 3

    Set up a weekly phone call with your close friends, as well. You may not always be able to make it, but knowing that you may get that phone call every week helps keep a friendship strong.

  4. Step 4

    Take some time once a month and send cards to your friends. It's very comforting to get mail when you're far from home. Show that you miss them by putting pen to paper.

  5. Step 5

    Start a rotation of items. You can pass along books you enjoy, DVDs or even a notebook in which to write notes. This is an easy way of telling your friends what you are interested in, and also getting a free little gift in the mail.

  6. Step 6

    Set up a calendar of get-togethers once you get everyone's school schedule. Knowing that you will be reunited at home at some point is calming, and will make you feel secure in your future connections.

  7. Step 7

    Visit whatever friends you can at least once a semester. You may not have the time or money to visit more often, but you should make it a point to see part of their new world.

Tips & Warnings
  • Remember that friendships sometimes do drift apart. Often, simply growing up is to blame. Don't hang on to friendships simply for the history, or you'll limit the effort you can put into new, better friendships.

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