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Step 1
Shake the interviewer's hand with a moderately firm grasp and, ideally, two pumps. While a firm grip conveys strength and confidence, a handshake is not a strength contest. A weak grip conveys intimidation and uncertainty. Some handshakes will of course last longer than others, you'll have to follow the interviewer's lead. To confirm the appearance of confidence, hold eye contact with the employer for the duration of the handshake and don't forget to smile.
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Step 2
Sit up straight in your chair. Posture, the most dominant component of body language, provides a presence that gives the appearance of confidence. It suggests that you are comfortable with scrutiny and willing to subject yourself to it. Slouching or sitting low in your seat gives just the opposite impression.
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Step 3
Make almost constant eye contact with the interviewer. This shows not only confidence, but that you're paying attention. It also indicates that you expect attention to be paid to you as well. Eye contact is the most important way that body language conveys honesty and lack of eye contact is considered a reliable sign of dishonesty. It is only natural that eye contact will be broken occasionally and briefly. That doesn't mean you should look at the floor or out the window. Keep your eyes focused on the action of the interview, but there's no need to unnaturally stare at the interviewer without any interruption. Just don't forget to reestablish eye contact within a second or two.
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Step 4
Keep your legs uncrossed for the duration of the interview. Crossed legs indicate that you are introverted and need distance. The physical barrier it creates translates into a psychological barrier.
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Step 5
Keep your arms outside your torso. Don't fold them or hold them in front of you (on your lap or on the desk). Keeping your arms on the armrests of the chair is optimal. If there are no armrests, keep your arms on the outside of your legs. Arms can be seen as a barrier just as crossed legs can. Keeping yourself exposed, without obstruction from your arms, indicates openness and being trustworthy. Having your arms folded is a strikingly defensive position.
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Step 6
Avoid fidgeting and frequently adjusting your position. These can give many different impressions, none of them favorable. Such body language can suggest, among other things, nervousness, anxiety, boredom, dishonesty and a lack of confidence. Beyond that, these actions are distracting.

























