How to Land a Date With a Rich Woman
Landing a date with a rich woman can be a double score: You get a good meal and the chance to socialize with the upper crust. Plus, there is always the possibility of a sizable lifestyle upgrade if things go well enough. While this kind of dream date isn't particularly common, neither is it out of the realm of possibility for anyone. If you are interested in landing a date with a rich woman, you need to learn a few basic skills.
Instructions
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Increase Your Odds of Meeting a Rich Woman
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Visit places that rich women frequent. High-end department stores, sports clubs, upscale hotel bars, art museums and society functions hosted by charity organizations are all good place to start. (The sports club will likely require membership.)
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Visit areas around town where rich women tend to congregate, like the hair salons and fine upscale shops in ritzy suburban paradises. You don't have to go into these places; you can meet the women on their way out. If you do choose to enter, have a good cover story as to why you are in a woman's hair salon.
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Join philanthropic organizations, or volunteer at political functions where rich women tend to turn out en masse.
Landing the Date
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Appearance is key; make sure yours is impeccable. You don't need tailored clothes, but a shirt that doesn't come in plastic wrapping is a start. Clean shoes, expensive pants and a few accessories won't hurt either.
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Practice small talk. Rich women don't want to be bored with your problems or bleak concerns. Keep the conversation light and upbeat. Striking up a conversation with a rich woman or two will give you a beginner's understanding of how the other half lives.
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Don't mention money. Rich women have highly developed senses that can detect a gold digger from yards (or sometimes even miles) away. Refrain from making any reference to status. Avoid saying anything like "I guess to you, that's not a lot of money" or "For someone like yourself, that's never been a problem." Instead, comment on her looks. You can say, "For someone like yourself, that's never been a problem" if you are referring to how attractive she is and how easy it must be for her to find a date.
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Flattery will get you everywhere. Rich women, like everyone else, love to be flattered. Compliment her shoes, purse and choice of dress, and do it with taste. A rich woman will look past your fledgling bank account to see the real you, if the real you is genuinely attracted to her.
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Ask for the date with grace, speed and confidence. Request her company at a simple afternoon lunch, or even an evening dinner. Make her feel special, as if this were something she should be interested in, too. Suggest an upscale place where they launder the napkins and polish the silverware. Have the name of such a place right on the tip of your tongue; knowing something about the menu might help entice her, as well.
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Tips & Warnings
Once you're on the date, you're on your own. Don't overdo it and ask to take her to lunch at the Ritz, especially if you can't afford it. There's nothing worse than sticking your date with the tab. Furthermore, she might be offended if she suspects you were pretending to be rich. Find a middle ground and tread lightly around the subject of money.