How to flirt and get someone's attention

Gracefully you walk past the man/woman/girl/guy, give them a wink, say something witty and minutes later they fall madly in love with you.

Isn't that how we all wish it would go when we see someone we are attracted to? But, more often than not we end up tongue tied, toilet paper hanging from our backs, and ketchup on our nose. Next, we flubber out something, which is nowhere close to what we planned to say.

And then the chance to mesmerize them is forever lost with the 2-second first impression.

Here are some tips on how to flirt and get someone's attention:

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

1. Visualize yourself as one sexy creature, confidence is the number one thing people are attracted to. So get some. If you don't have any right now, No problem. Imagine in your mind "The Sexy you" that you secretly want to be. If you think you could never be that person then you won't, it is all in your mind after all, so start thinking positive. If you doubt that, do a search for "The Pickup Artist reality show" and you will see that it has more to do with personal style than actual looks. You will also get some great entertainment at the same time. As far as Visualization, if you need help or want to get more in-depth read "Creative Visualization, by Shakti Gawain" written at least 2 decades or more before "The Secret" and is chock full of step by step instructions on how to visualize and achieve your wildest dreams.

2. I don't want to say that games are the way to go, but we have all tried the really honest approach and most of the time it totally freaks people out. So one thing that almost always works is the "Come Here, Go away" technique.
   
   Say you are confident and you manage to involve someone into a conversation. "Did you see that car wreck down the road", "Do you know where the local library is?" Whatever opening line you can come up with... You are looking at them flirtatiously; maybe you even punch them in the arm (softly), or touch their hand. Now ... just when it is still light and positive, then think of it as teasing them, such as a child does, "Well, I have to go.. I can't talk to someone wearing jeans!" Act like you are leaving for a second.. This will pull them in further.

3. 
    
   Now he wants me.

   Ok, so in summary:
   
   -Be confident
   -Feel sexy
   -Play the part of the sexy person you imagine in your mind
   -Make up an opening statement, something ridiculous is good, but can be something normal.
   -Try to tie that into a conversation.
   -Once you get a conversation started, throw back a negative
   -And then flirt again.

Tips & Warnings

• When you say the negative "Go away" comment, don't be too rude or mean, that can backfire.

Resources

• Amazon.com Creative Visualization by Shakti Gawain
• VH1 The Pickup Artist

[stimran]

on 10/30/2008 Very Good!

[iamageniuster]

on 10/30/2008 All right! Thanks for the tips. Now I know how to get your attention.

[akorn6]

on 10/30/2008 Great article, thanks for the tips!