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Step 1
STOP TRYING
It doesn't sound like a great way to get a girlfriend, but when you're looking for Ms. Right, you're actually driving her away. Too many men invest their time in hunting for a partner and not enough time investing in what really turns woman on: A MAN WITH A LIFE! Pull yourself out of online chatrooms and real life bars, and get yourself to the gym or in a professional development class. Put yourself in an environment that will enrich your life and make you more valuable to the opposite sex.
When you're on the prowl for a lady, women can tell and they want no part of it. Searching for love makes you more accessible, not more attractive. -
Step 2
SETTLE... FOR NOW
Girlfriends are like employers. When you have a job, it's easier to get a batter job. When you aren't working, potential employers wonder what's wrong with you. The same thing is true of women.
Settle for a girlfriend, or simply a girl to date, who isn't quite what you're looking for, but don't form a committed relationship. You simply want a woman in your life whose presence shows other ladies that your ARE date-able and desirable. Ms. Right-Now will be your silent reference when Ms. Right comes along.
Having a girlfriend makes you more attractive to women, makes you appear safer, and is a great way to get a girlfriend you want. -
Step 3
BE POSITIVE
Not just about dating, but about everything. An air of positivity and contentment attracts all sort of people to you, not just women. Everyone is attracted to happy people, and hope some of their happiness will rub off.
Likewise, unhappy men who complain about work, family, friends, or other women send out negative signals that drive women away. Ladies follow the smell of personal success and joy. They also know that, while you're complaining about others, you may be complaining about THEM some day.
Be more attractive to women by having a positive and pleasant appearance to get a girlfriend you want. -
Step 4
VALUE! VALUE! VALUE!
Remember that what makes you more attractive to women is value. Get a girlfriend by showing your potential. Your health, happiness, ambition, kindness, contentment, and positivity are all part of the promise you need to get a girlfriend you want. Without value and potential, you're never going to attract Ms. Right.
