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How to Have Sex Appeal

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Sex appeal means different things to different people. In general though it means someone is seductive and sultry, without being a ****. This person knows what they want and aren’t afraid to go out there and get it. Now it’s time for you to have some sex appeal of your own.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Instructions
  1. Step 1

    Look the part. Would you find someone in torn jeans and an old tee-shirt sexy? Yet this is probably your uniform of choice. Pick out some new clothes and let your inner sex god (or goddess) shine.

  2. Step 2

    Focus on your positive attributes. If you go into a club wearing a skirt that shows the most of your awesome legs, the guys will notice.

  3. Step 3

    Seek out others instead of playing the wallflower role. No one will ever notice you if you keep hiding in the shadows and staying with the pack.

  4. Step 4

    Be direct with others. Give that person across the bar a stare and smile or at least maintain eye contact. Those with sex appeal aren’t afraid to be direct.

  5. Step 5

    Learn the importance of self-confidence. Those who have sex appeal are masters at letting their self-confidence come out.

  6. Step 6

    Master the art of flirting. All sex gods and goddesses know the importance of a subtle touch on the shoulder or slight smile.

Tips & Warnings
  • Having sex appeal doesn’t necessarily mean having sex. Just because you flirt with someone in the bar it doesn’t mean you have to go home with them.
  • Don’t force yourself to be something you aren’t. If you’d rather stay at home, then stay at home. You don’t want someone who thinks you’re one thing when you’re really something different.

Comments  

JosieKnows said

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on 11/30/2008 Great article! Especially the tips and warning. Sex appeal and sex are totally different. Also, forcing yourself to be someone you hate in order to attract others never works. FIVE STARS!

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