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How to spice up your sex life!

How to spice up your sex life!
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By stacyrhea
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Thinking about the way things use to be BEFORE getting married? Are you wanting, craving and longing for that sex life again? Here is a "how to" on spicing up a bland sex life!

Difficulty: Easy
Instructions

Things You'll Need:

  • An open mind with a dash of bad girl!
  1. Step 1

    First, STOP what your doing and get ready for some CHANGE! You can't expect to keep your sex life spiced up and interesting if your not willing to try new things and break the same old routine!!

    Get out your confidence and start trying new things!

    Role play! This is one of THE most funniest ways to spice up a dull sex life! You can play cop and hooker, doctor and patient, master and slave, teacher and student...the list could go on and on!! Get creative with this and RELAX! Its suppose to be fun!

  2. Step 2

    Next, buy some toys!! YES! Toys are a wonderful way to add some spice in the bedroom! You can purchase costumes for your role playing, sexy outfits for both him and her, or more intimate types of toys such as dildos, collars, paddles, hand cuffs and vibrators!

  3. Step 3

    Toss in some porn!

    Now I know not all women are into watching porn (or men for that matter) but this can be a very erotic way to break the ice and open the door to trying new things! Plus, in my opinion its very HOT to see others have sex! Its a great turn on for me!

  4. Step 4

    Learn to talk dirty! Men and women both love dirty talk in the bedroom! Its hot, spicy and will surely heat things up!

  5. Step 5

    Start taking care of your self physically if you don't already! Exercise and maintain your body! Feeling good inside and out is one of the best ways to promote a healthy sex life!

    Look your best! Keep your body well groomed and smelling good! The sense of smell is a POWERFUL THING! Who wants to get busy with someone who has bad breath or body odor!

    The main thing to remember is RELAX! ITS JUST SEX!

Tips & Warnings
  • Drinking pineapple juice makes the taste of sperm better!
  • Surprise your sexual partner with a kinky new outfit!
  • Keep candles handy!
  • Break the ice by running a bubble bath for your partner!

Comments  

texasparky said

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on 3/11/2009 "Dash of bad girl"..........Wow.

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on 11/19/2008 They are all great tips, many of which we use and enjoy!!!

DASH5000 said

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on 10/27/2008 sounds awesome! if i had a sex life, i would try all those.

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