Things You'll Need:
- An open mind, a desire to help another...
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Step 1
Know the signs and symptoms of Alzheimer's. It's more than just forgetting to do things; it's about life processes--and not knowing what the steps are and how to do them. For instance, a clear sign of Alzheimer's is not knowing how to get back home or what a washing machine is supposed to do and how to operate it.
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Step 2
Understand that when someone begins to suffer from Alzheimer's, they will often become angry because they are struggling on how to do something or unable to remember those close to them or what it is they need to do that day. And keep in mind, if you're a relative or close friend of an Alzhemier patient, you may experience feelings of anger, too, knowing that you're losing someone close to you.
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Step 3
If you're dealing with a relative with Alzheimer's expect to have feelings of "aloneness," for there may be next to no one who will want to listen to you. When this happens, you will often feel anger. Give that anger to God and let Him help you. For He will because He cares for you. He will show you what you need to do.
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Step 4
Look for moments of grace with your loved one or friend; for they will appear every now and then. Appreciate those moments, for those moments will reveal the person you once knew and those moments will see you through.
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Step 5
Learn to treasure the days--for the person you are caring for and for yourself. Try to keep in mind how precious each day is, no matter how difficult or trying. When the person who has Alzheimer's shows a light of understanding in his or her eyes when you're talking or showing familiar pictures, that will be a moment you will remember forever.
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Step 6
Keep in mind too, that with such a traumatic illness, there will be many moments of uncertainty, and this will bring on frustration, guilt and anger. This person will need you more and more and expect help from you without any judgment. So, do what you can but also seek help from another when the going gets to be too much. You must make time for yourself to relax and enjoy; for this will make you a better caregiver and the patient will do better, too.
