How to Improve Chances of Getting Child Custody

Child custody battles can be fierce. Not only do they cost thousands and thousands of dollars, they usually consist of a significant amount of heartbreak and sorrow. Whether you stay at home with your kids, or work outside the home, you have chance of getting custody. This article will show you how to increase your chances of getting child custody during your divorce.

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Lawyer

1. Maintain a close relationship with your children. Make you children your primary focus. Show up for sporting events, concerts, field trips. Pick them up from school, call to talk at night, and offer to help with their homework. Make sure you keep good notes of your involvement to show the court you love your children and have their best interests in mind. This is the most important aspect of child custody.

2. Seek the help of a reputable divorce lawyer. Ask around your town for recommendations. Check the local bar association for a list of recommendations as well. Child custody, unfortunately, isn't only dependent on your abilities as a parent. It also depends on the skills of your lawyer.

3. Focus on your strengths as a parent. Do not, let me repeat, Do not bad mouth your ex spouse unless there is a serious issue like abuse. Focus on your strong points and you will look like a good parent rather than a spiteful ex.

4. Maintain your temper around your ex spouse. Although you may not agree, especially when you are separated or divorced, keep your cool. If you argue or yell, it could be held against you in a child custody case.

Tips & Warnings

• If you feel you are more likely to receive child custody, hire a professional to perform a custody evaluation. Many courts simply follow the advice given by the evaluator.