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Step 1
Be Real: Don't force it. Take on a role of a sex kitten and draw on what turns you on about your boyfriend. Think about his arms, his ocean colored eyes, or whatever else makes you both love and want him. Include those in your talk. You might want to make list of these traits so help you focus.
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Step 2
Take it Slow: You may first try texting him a dirty message. Once you have done that you can use that brazeness you feel when you text to invigorate you when you are talking to him.
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Step 3
Expand your Vocabulary: Most of us were raised to be good girls. Trust me, I was one of the most innocent of the innocent. However to talk dirty you, like I did, will need to learn a few new words. Since anyone can access this page I won't list them, but avoid medical terms for body parts and instead get a adult book or movie and learn the terms.
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Step 4
Visualize: Think about talking dirty to your boyfriend and visualize the reactions. Think of what you will say and how he will respond. Imagine his blue, turquoise, ocean, or whatever eyes looking at you with lust and amazement.
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Step 5
Reciprocate: Encourage him to reciprocate and talk dirty to you.
