How to Compromise and Keep the Peace

Finding yourself stuck between a rock and a hard place? Relationships are tricky things. Sometimes we hurt the ones we love the most. Stop and think about the situation. What is the desired outcome?

Difficulty: Easy

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• self
• other person
• pen or pencil
• notepaper
• brainstorming
• an open mind
• desired outcome from both parties involved

1. 
    
   lets shake on it

   First, positive thoughts are important. Goal, to work this situation through, without arguing in a rude manner. Make a rule no loud voices. Give each other a hand in making peace.

2. 
    
   make a list

   Use your notebook paper for each of you to write down your desired outcome. Take a look at the desired outcome from each of you. How are they similar? How are they different? Is there any wiggle room? Make them more along the same wave length, if possible?

3. Talk about why each of you wants it a certain way. Maybe you'll realize the importance of the other person's reasoning. Communication is key in relationships. If you can understand THE WHY, it should help you to come closer, to working through the situation.

Tips & Warnings

• Remember your goal to work through it.
• Brain storm ideas
• Remember your goal to not argue in loud voices.