Things You'll Need:
- Mulled cider
- Pre-printed sing-along books
- Seasonal treats
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Step 1
Choose a day. Many people have church or other religious commitments on Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanza, and on the Winter Equinox. Be sure to choose a day which does not coincide with these times to maximize your party attendance. Also decide whether you want the party at night or during the day; nighttime offers many advantages (such as a roaring fire) but may be too much to ask of elderly guests or those with small children.
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Step 2
Preprint the sing-along books. In a non-denominational yuletide party, it is important to choose songs that are less religious so as not to offend some party-goers. Preprint several extra copies of the songs you decide to sing so that everyone has a copy and can follow along even if they don't know the words.
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Step 3
Be sensitive. Some people may be offended at the religious or secular songs you sing at your party; be ready to understand and offer compromises. To prevent dietary or allergy problems, consider offering your guests a chance to request certain items be served or the opportunity to bring their own to share.
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Step 4
Place your party. Many parts of the country are very cold in the wintertime, with snow a distinct possibility. In this case, plan to have your party in a large room or space where revelers can feel comfortable; a slightly cold room with a roaring fire for example, can encourage closeness but don't let it be so cold your guests feel like leaving early. If your area is relatively warm or snow- and rain-free, consider an outdoor party with a bonfire. The warmth of the fire, smell of the wood, and novel atmosphere will make your party memorable.
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Step 5
Be a social butterfly. Some people feel awkward in making small talk at parties, but as the host you should move from cluster of people to cluster to introduce someone new to the group. Your breaking the ice for them will be greatly appreciated. Or, if a friend or relative is more gregarious than you, have them be the official greeter and do the introductions in your place. Be the idea person as well; if the party starts bogging down, you have to breathe life into it by changing the tone or direction of the party.
