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Step 1
Do the freaking dishes. Seriously. No woman likes to live in a dirty home and no woman loves doing chores. Besides, there is nothing sexier than a man at the sink washing out his own coffee mug.
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Step 2
Tell her how beautiful she is. You should do this any time she takes special care to get dressed to go out. More importantly, you should tell her this when she is naked. However, if the only time you compliment her is while you're reaching for her to wake her up in the middle of the night for sex, forget it. You're not being sincere and she won't believe you. Plus, you're pathetic.
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Step 3
Love her. Do all the things you did for her when you first fell in love. Treat her like a queen and make her feel special. Your sex life will be back on it's feet in no time.
Comments
steeleinfo said
on 9/10/2009 I hate that women give us a bad name by never being sexual with their men after the ring! She VOWED to the relationship and the care of it. Arg! It is wrong to marry someone then neglect them.
I would come at this at an intellectual level. I first would ask myself some questions about myself. No matter what life "sitch" you are in, you always have to eliminate the possibility ( yes- be reflective and honest with yourself) of what you are doing/not doing that rings her bell. Then, if you think you have been FAIR, consider whats up with her...some Moms cant get over the Mommy role and dont see themselves as sexual beings. Maybe do some research as to why...and professional research not the ghetto advice forums from other people. ( try Pat Allen- do a search)
If you sense that you do things that would make her attracted to you, then maybe she is lazy, makes excuses, or is selfish and ...
loki0101 said
on 9/9/2009
Sagedet, if you're actually doing all the things you said you are doing and still can't get some, it means you are a tool and no women is interested in a tool. Your woman has you whipped, and most likely doesn't feel any attraction towards you any more.
What are you thinking?That doing chores for your wife is sexy, that catering to her every whim is attractive. She trained you well. You have to face it: you are trying to buy sex from your wife by doing all of these things-that's not sexy. It's the same as a guy buying fancy things to a girl he barely met to make her have sex with him...transparent to most women.
You are to accommodating; be a man, take charge, do something interesting, challenging. Prove to her you are still a man, not a whipped cream.
You stepped over the line between being romantic and a tool.Don't listen to people giving you advice to be MORE romantic; what y...
mowettr said
on 6/3/2009 sagedet her labido might be a bit low. It's a chemical thing. How's her diet? Be sure she eats plenty of fruits and veggies each day. 5 different types of veggies each day. Variety is the key. Fruits, nuts, veggies, grains and a variety of them all.
sagedet said
on 5/29/2009 Yeah, all this advice is useless...i cook, i clean, i pay the bills, i treat her like a queen just as if we met yesterday, I write her letters, poetry, make scrapbooks, I hold her, caress her, run my fingers through her hair, do puzzles together, workout keeping fit for her, allow her free time away from me with friends, constantly compliment her, and all sorts of other things...but still she's never in the mood. I'm so horny all the time now...i'm constantly fighting with myself to deny offers of other women. I love my wife, but it's like as soon as we got married her sex drive went to zero. I'm not small in the pants, I'm not a minute man, and I get her to climax when we do have sex...I'm lost...
greatnews said
on 4/8/2009 The first mistake is to think its all about sex. Women want romance, which is not all about sex. As an aside, have you ever heard the old joke. *How do you kill a woman's sex drive?* Answer: *Give her wedding cake.* 5 *'s