How to Be the Perfect Boyfriend

Being the Perfect Boyfriend can be the quite a challenge.But with a bit of practice, it might JUST BE possible. Here are some tips to get you started.

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• A Girlfriend

1. 
   couples listening

   Listen to her.
   
   Girls talk a lot about things you won't fully understand. This includes shopping, makeup and feelings. It's important to seem interested, no matter how confused you're getting. This is because girls value communication.
   If you have been caught daydreaming or not paying attention, here are some ways to get out of it:
   "What an interesting story!"
   "I can't believe it, give me more details"

2. 
   meet the family

   Love her family and friends.
   
   No matter how great you are, you're going to have to remember you're not the only important person in her life. Remember names of important loved ones to her.(Because saying things like your "fat brother" instead of his name makes you look bad)
   
   If it isn't too hard, try to be friends with as many important people to her as possible. So if anything happens to make her cry, at least they'll put in a good word for you.

3. 
   Be a Man

   Be a Man.
   
   In the old days it was all about being a MANLY man. Then for a little while it was about being a WOMENs man. And now it's about being the perfect man.
   The common word: "MAN"
   
   So..can you be supportive of her talents? If she's started a new job, give her a call to see how her day has been. Has she written a story? If so, then read it and give her positive feedback. And if she's sad, be the one to hold and comfort her.

4. In the bedroom.
   
   When it comes to the bedroom, you need to treat your woman like an instrument. Be in tune to what she wants, and how's she's feeling. She will notice that you seem to understand her. And your efforts will pay off.

5. 
   surprise her

   Surprise her.
   
   Once in a while, surprise her with flowers or showing up unexpectedly to her job. If you've been doing well, take her on a small vacation. It's great because not only do you get to relax, you're in for a great time as well.

6. Hygiene is key.
   
   She smells good, so why stink it up? Take showers often (because girls love the 'fresh out of shower' scent). And if you're out and about, use a good cologne. Brushing often, and dressing nicely is always a plus. And never: use cologne as a replacement for showers, it won't hide your stink for long.

7. Be faithful.
   
   If you're with this girl, be true to her. If you've decided that you're serious with her, keep it that way. Don't EVER FOOL AROUND with anyone else. (I'm sure you'd hate it if she did that to you)

Tips & Warnings

• Have fun with your girlfriend.
• You'll want to leave her missing you more so that she'll look forward to seeing you again.
• Don't be too mean to her. Girls are much more sensitive than the average guy.

Resources

• The Keys to a Happy Marriage
• More Articles by WesleyJ

[hopekee]

on 11/12/2008 I love this article! Thanks for sharing all of these IMPORTANT tips! FIVE PERFECT STARS!!

[JIN1128]

on 10/12/2008 I wish all guys could be sweet and nice, great article!

[slphilbrick]

on 10/12/2008 I'm with Gardengates, what are you doing later Wesley? LOL.... 5*.... I'd give you ten, but 5 is what we get ! I hope lots of guys read this.

[Gardengates]

on 10/12/2008 I wanna meet this guy!

[klnygaard]

on 10/12/2008 excellent article-#1 is very important-If we think you listen and understand us, then you are a good boyfriend