Surviving a Long Distance Relationship

Many couples experience long distance relationships. Some last forever, while others quickly fizzle. If you want your long distance relationship to last, there are some thing you can do to help the situation. This article explains some important steps you can take to keep your love alive.

Things You'll Need

• Computer
• Internet access
• Webcam
• Note pad
• Phone

Instructions

1. Sit down with your significant other and discuss your expectations for your long distance relationship. It is important to have this discussion before distance separates you. One person may have expectations the other cannot meet. If you find this could be a problem, you may have to go your separate ways.

2. Designate a certain time each day to talk on the phone or send instant messages online. This should happen during your pre-distance conversation. Make it a phone date. Of course you may have to reschedule every once and a while, but make it a priority.

3. Carry a small note pad with you each day and write down interesting things you see or do. Some people, especially men, have a difficult time talking on the phone. Writing down interesting things during the day keeps you thinking about your significant other and gives you things to talk about on the phone.

4. Purchase a webcam if you will be apart for more than a few months. Being able to see each other is important if you will be separated for many months. There is something special about having a conversation and looking into the face of your loved one.

5. Visit each other as often as possible. If you can drive each weekend to see each other, do. If you need to meet half way, do. Even if you are only able to visit each other a few times a year, make those moments count.

Tips & Warnings

• Fix your hair and makeup before you turn on the webcam. Your partner only gets one chance to see you every day or week. Make sure his memory of you is a beautiful one.

• Don't neglect to talk to your partner if you feel a disconnection. The quicker you resolve your issues, the better chance you have of staying together.