How to Plan a Great Girlfriend Getaway

Juggling family and work? Lets face it, sometimes girls just need to get away from the stresses of being a wife, mother and more. Summer is a wonderful time to get together with your closest friends. Here are some tips to help you plan an exclusive escape with the gals.

Things You'll Need

• Casual wear
• Comfy walking shoes
• Sweater for cool evenings
• Dress-up outfit
• Camera

Instructions

1. Decide that it is time for a girlfriend getaway, and determine how long you’ll be away. No matter the length of time, you will have fun being together. If there are more than two of you going on the trip, consider letting one person organize the trip and handle all the details. Present your plan to your husband or significant other. Explain the arrangements you have made for the kids and any pets that will need to be fed. You may want to ask a family member to help with the kids or pets while you are away.

2. Agree on a budget that best suits everyone, especially your girlfriend with money concerns. You don’t have to go to a hot tourist spot to have fun or to an expensive hotel and spa to pamper yourself. Most hotels now have fitness clubs for some exercise, and you can be just as content sitting at the pool with your good friends talking, listening and laughing your head off.

3. If you’re traveling together by car, consider starting a pool to share the expense of gas and tolls. Bring a cooler with ice, water and other beverages, as well as some munchies. Decide beforehand if you’ll cook or eat out, and then agree on what to bring. But dress up and treat yourself to one nice dinner out, and see a chick flick. Watching a film your husband or boyfriend wouldn’t be interested in feels great.

4. When you check into your room, have a toast to each other and get ready for your first day out. Start with a shared interest like shopping. Browse shops. Admire clothes you can’t afford, look for bargains, and try things on. A great thing about a best girlfriend is that she’ll tell you the truth because she loves you. Pick up the perfect souvenir, then sit down for a long lunch. Share your joys, fears and worries. Those moments of understanding and connection are magical.

5. Before heading back to your families, make an effort to stay connected. By writing your thoughts and feelings in a journal, you are making the memories last. Send the journal to your girlfriend, who will then write something and pass it on to the next friend. Get started planning your next trip. This keeps your girlfriend getaway alive, while building excitement and anticipation for the next one.